Friends Though and Through!

Sometimes it happens this way:
You meet someone and you are just cool.
You don't really like them " like that".
So you don't act on anything, and you just act like normal.
Now here is where you can deviate from the path.
You can:
A. Keep things platonic
or
B. Complicate things via relationship or relations (there is a difference)

Most of us, are the types who believe that friendships can go un-changed because ( we have been there before and we know what to do, and what not to do this time around)

Honestly there is no way to really be the same after you have crossed certain lines in the sand, if you feel the need to cross this line fully assess the damages you might cause.

So here are some healthy tips to keep the lines of communication open.

1.) Be nice. ( otherwise you look salty and bitter)
2.) Fix your face. ( No salty looks,mean mugging, etc)
3.) Smile and say a few friendly words.( You don't have to have a full conversation, keeps it movin' boo)
4.) Don't try to attach yourself, or make yourself "too available". That sets up another situation which i like to call " Swimfan" ( will blog about that later.)
5.) Just be cool, and continue to do the things you did before you were in the relationship/having relations. some find this difficult and would rather drop the person all together.

Dropping the person all together introduces a completely different blog lol. But if they are not being the person they were before and just asking plain dumb, why even put yourself through it... Next. It's not worth the energy!